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Ve materialism and individuality so they all stand before Allah as eual spirits They then perform symbolic rituals HmmmmThere was part of the book she spoke about her spiritual journey From blind obedience to actively choosing conversion to following the letter of the law to following the spirit of the law after that there was a little journey into mysticism I started feeling a little nervous about that part our LDS Mormon religion iscourages The Winter Warrior delving into the mysteries of God as most assuredly there is much our human comprehension is not up to the task and stick to what we have been given as the path back to our Heavenly Father that after all the good works we cano we still stand sinful and must accept the Savior as our mediator through Grace to gain admittance into Heaven But the I thought about it the I saw the similarities of her journey with ours In our religion after living the spirit of the law we are most assuredly encouraged to continue on our spiritual journey one of stiriving to be like the Savior and to literally evelop a personal relationship with Him This is a eeply personal and intimate spiritual journey that I could euate to that stage in her life Where she Toffees night noises discovered LOVE God is LOVE This is a beautiful story ofiscovery both self Flawed (The Butcher, discovery and spiritualiscoveryI wanted to end my review with an explanation of my fourstar rating Is the writing such that it s artistic and estined to be a classic in the auto biographical genre No Lively and beautiful at times yes Dry and a little slow sometimes yes But there was one part of the book where she escribed her grandmother her angel grandmother Her grandmother who married a man of her loving father s choosing who raised 10 faithful children of her own and who rises every morning at 3 am for her Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Twins daily prayer with Allah I felt this woman s spirituality her closeness to God I envied it What a beautiful example This woman was geographically religiously and generationally apart from me and has inspired me to be a better woman A better Mormon A better Daughter of God And to be inspired in such a manner well was rather shocking for me in a good wayps I think Shelina and I were spirit sisters separated at birth I call myself a feminist Mormon housewife in every positive connotation of the word and well I think we may have been cut from the same cloth A highly educated faithful woman whoefies cultural traditions to climb Mount Kilimanjaro and become one of the most influential Muslim women in British society You go girl I read this like 3 years ago I think It was one of the reuired novels for my 20th Century Literature subject I usually feel pressured when I have to read novels for my literature class Flaunting, Extravagant Queen (French Revolution, despite my love for reading Because I m the kind of person of who thinks a lot about the workload ie assignments uizzes examsand reading Every semester I have to read 5 8 novels supposedly it was a good thing right but imagine when you have to read book tha Read my full review of Love In A Headscarf at theinspirationtreewordpresscomReading about Shelina s life was a very pleasant experience She began her book by envisaging that she is telling us her story over a cup of coffee and while reading I actually felt like I was sitting with her in such a place listening to her relate her story I laughed at all the right places shook my head sadly when things got a littleepressing brooded thoughtfully over her reasoning and rejoiced when she finally met her One What made this book even enjoyable was that was that the author and I share a similar upbringing and cultural and religious experiences I was even able to cringe when reading about her first introduction because it bought up memories of my first introduction buried Pages From Bee Journal deep between memories of Horrible Hairstyles and First Days Of School As for her Six Stages Of Self Pity I was shocked at how accurate they were my friends and I can list them off by heartShelina seep insight into her life and faith encouraged me to probe Stones of Witness deeper into my own character and appropriately uestion my ideals as a British Muslim woman within the confines of culture My respect for the author increased chapter by chapter we all know that it takes courage to stand up for what you believe in against what society wants you to believe This theme even extends back to the time of great Romantic authors such as Ralph Waldo Emerson and Henry David ThoreauAt the end I came to the conclusion that I have a lot to learn about myself and about my religion but nevertheless I am optimistic about setting off on my own spiritual journey After I mone with iscovering the world and it s hidden secrets maybe then I can write a book about my experiences tooOverall I was very pleased with the book although at times in particular when the iscussion revolved around history or philosophy my attentiveness to what was being said burned out somewhat I was interested in reading on and Lots of Mommies discovering how this analysis related to her life experiences and when Iid so I was not isappointed Personally I believe that I have a lot to experience and learn before I can understand and truly appreciate the reasoning put forward in the bookAlso I id wish that the author revealed about the One when he finally made it into the story Having read about all the terrible situations she was put in with Syed Mr Cricket Lover Mobeen Mr Practical Joker and Khalil just Khalil I can t even place a Fantasy Man description for that guy I was justifiably eager foretails about Mr One I just felt like it was over so uickly but since it was a very happy ending it was still worth it This is a memoir of a British Indian Muslim woman looking for a husbandThe book started with a very juvenile style The author s Islamic reasoning was a little too simplistic like that of a teenager I actually thought the book was excerpts from Shelina s The Flame Of Adventure diary when. S sheecides to follow the arranged marriage route to finding Mr Right Muslim style Shelina's captivating journey begins as a search for the one but along the way she also iscovers herself and her fait.
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View spoilerThat one star for mentioning tasawwuf and Compassion and Mohamed Habib and the Greatest Women to influence the world uring the Prophets times Asiya Khadijah Hajirah Maryum Safura hide spoiler This review is also published on my blog here in my own words is the underlying premise of Love in a Headscarf It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single practicing Divine Magnetic Lands devout Muslim woman in possession of intelligence wit and beauty must be in want of a husband who has the same ualities As well as romance Lots of romanceThe novel is an account of the author s search for the One through highly structured and family and community oriented means She alsowells a great Frog and the Treasure deal on how her faith shaped her search for a partner alongside generaliscussions about Islam and being Muslim in the westOne reviewer called the book interesting but not uplifting Their review is a good way to pave way into my experience of reading the bookFor those single Muslim men and women who are enduring the struggle to find mates or are preparing to embark on that journey this book is not helpful and is even rather espairing at times although that was clearly not intended by the author The unwounded in the modern Muslim marriage plight may miss that negative tenor but the potential emotional rag for those with real life experience in this arena may be enough to recommend passing over this bookSo true For the most part this book was Lilith Enraptured (Divinity Warriors depressing While I enjoyed seeing how the author s experiences with meeting prospects mirrored mine having to suffer through men who are inexcusably non punctual who hate books and those who read them who show up simply because their parents forced them into it who are fixated on matters of height even if it comesown to a few inches etc they simply reinforced my frustrations about the His Substitute Bride (Seavers Brides, deeply flawed assumptions that have crept into cultural practices surrounding marriage and courtship or lack thereof in the Muslim South Asianiaspora Janmohamed Tu Alma ¿La Conoces? does uestion some of these assumptions but not at all in a way that I found satisfying or particularly illuminatingIid like reading about how the author braved the instruments of social compliance J.M. Coetzee designed to keep women in line byoing things like climbing Mount Kilimanjaro and buying a racing car I appreciate the idea of her wanting to be the change she wanted to see Another really interesting point she brings up is how in the final stages of the husband hunt she learns to see men not just as potential suitors but just as who they are Each person she writes was a elicious moment to be savoured with respect for their humanity This healthy attitude is a wonderful way to grow and learn through what can often be a reary heartbreaking process of finding a spouseHowever for a story that is so centred on finding The Club of Angels deep enduring romantic love I feel that the book is strangelyevoid of it On the occasions the author feels a Blue Skies and Gunfire deep attraction to a prospective spouse the rapport between them comes off as fleeting and superficial The result being even when she met someone who seemed promising I couldn t be less indifferent about what the outcome would be There are worthy points made about capital L love and seeking to be closer to theivine While they were important and noteworthy they weren t particularly memorable for me This Altmuslimah review however is appreciative of this aspect of the bookI also think the book had tangents into iscussions about Islam and womanhood that seemed a bit elementary and intended for non Muslim audiences who are not familiar with Islam I could see how it was intended to frame the author s experience of being a British Asian Muslim woman who wears the hijab but to me they were just wearisome istractions parts to be skimmed through just so I could get back to her story of how she finally meets her husbandI suppose my not wholly enjoying this book largely has to 새로 만든 먼나라 이웃나라 12 - 미국 3 do with my uestioning whether the kind of marriage process that Janmohamed went through can always be euated to finding love As much as I want to believe that parents imams and a vicious team of aunties have the potential to find the one for you the whole point of the one is that there is something that grows organically with them a process that I can t imagine naturally occurring under the watchful eyes of community elders and inordinate pressures to get married That is why Muslim stories that are not as by the book as community leaders would like them to be honest accounts such as those in Love InshAllah or of Muslim men s experiences with finding a partner resonate so much with meI have great respect for Janmohamed s enacting of the changes that she wanted to see by challenging stereotypes about Muslim women However as far as the marriage process is concerned the changes I think are needed reuire something much radical something that skirts along the edges of conventional accepted territory It reuires than a few raised eyebrows and ruffled feathers over what kind of a vehicle a womanrives to the mosue The system needs than a poke it needs a good shake It starts with an acceptance of the fact that love can take on an unlikely unpredictable form that our social interactions and suitor screening processes need to make room for so that it may be easier for the single Muslim to fulfill half their Ossos Perdidos (Temperance Brennan, deen so to speakJanmohamed s story is not every Muslim woman s story for she is fortunate enough to exercise her agency in a close knit community she has known her whole life It is up to each of us to seriously and honestly examine our needs contexts and values and forge a path to our future partner that works within our systems or in opposition to it My motivation to read Love in a Headscarf was pure curiosity I tend to judge people as individuals rather than as part of a group and really had no prior knowledge of Islam before 91. At the age of thirteen I knew that I wasestined to marry John Travolta One Born Fighting day he would arrive on my North Londonoorstep fall madly in love with me and ask me to marry him Then he would convert to Is.
1 Since that terrible Dr. Simon Forman day a lot of mostly negative statements have been made about Muslim belief and it seemed appropriate to listen to the voice of someone who actually lives that lifeI thoroughly enjoyed this book The author s sense of humor in finding a husband created a story that entertained while also educating me about the role of women in Muslim culture I was hoping she would address the events of 911 and sheid I wondered what Serving Up Secrecy (Ladies of Westside drove someone to the point where they were willing to end their own life and createestruction around them What kind of macabre aspiration was that Was it pure hatred Was it an evil mind that had got hold of the means to carry out a bloodthirsty act I couldn t help but think those who committed the acts of September 11 fell into this category although none of us would ever know the truth In my opinion organized religion is at its best a code of ethics Despite the fact that the author was raised as a British Muslim and I am an American Jew I feel that we belong to the same sisterhood This book was helpful to me and I hope it is widely read as rationality needs to overcome fear and A Wartime Nurse distrust and I think people need to focus on what they have in common not on how they areifferent It was fun to read this Muslim woman s memoir and marvel about the similarities between her Split dating experiences and the courtship system in my culture The parallels were striking even in small ways The involvement of the entire family the priorities the traditional values the power of the aunties middle aged women who may or may not be relatives and may or may not be nice people who serve as the gatekeepers between the seeking woman and possible guys and must be hud at all costs and Having said that a number of flaws interfered with my enjoyment I wasn t crazy about the writing which I often found irritatingly sophomoric andistracting Focus was lacking as somewhat repetitive ill fated blind ate woe is me memoir sections alternated with idactic and sometimes preachy Islam for Sword of Honour Second To None dummies sections I suppose both aspects of the book were arguably necessary but I would have preferred a seamless transition between the two and better editingFinally though reading about the author s reaction to 911 as a Muslim living in London was certainly enlightening I found much of what she said apologetic and oneimensional as she The Extra Cadaver Murder denied any pro violent sentiments in the Koran or in Islam I m sure I m not the most objective person on this topic but I found some of what she saidifficult to swallow Still a fast and enlightening read I Perfect Girl Evolution Vol. 6 d be curious to hear a shidduchater s reaction to the book this book took me on a journey i would never have experienced anywhere else it spoke out my unspeakable troubles calmed my frayed nerves and most importantly it led me on a journey to find the one the great one Almighty Allahi love this book a lot thanks to my friend bilkis begum for recommending it to me xx One book thousand feelings About soulmate love god religion Islam racism About a Muslim girl who lives in London and tries to find god herself her soulmateand love Throughout the pages she iscovers herself and her religion and the meaning of patient in her research Because searching for a husband had istracted her from exploring her own inner worldThis book what I needed to understand that as a human being my focus should make my spirit blossomOne Dark Ties (Broken Saints Society day maybe if I fellepressed about finding my soulmate or I give up about life and love I ll return to this book again Shelina is a thoroughly modern Muslim a British Indian Muslim Her ancestors were from India and converted to Islam and moved to Tanzania When Tanzania was granted independence from Britain Shelina s father chose to take the offer as a British citizen to move to England Moving into that environment has caused her family to closely examine which Muslim practices arewere part of their culture and which were actually a part of Islam This was the second book I ve ever read about Muslim women the first being Princess A True Story of Life Behind the Veil in Saudi Arabia which could not be DIFFERENT in portrayal of the life of a Muslim woman I think this than anything solidified my knowledge that Islam is uite wonderful and all of the ugly atrocities in Muslim nations come from awful cultural traditions than anything the u ran has ever saidShelina wrote this book about how as a modern Muslim woman she chose the traditional path of an arranged marriage When I read the book blurb I thought it would be crazy tales along the lines of hijinx ensue lol While she Um Fogo Eterno did include uite a bit ofescriptions in first person voice of her experiences which were funny much of the rest of the writing was expository Not in a bad way I sure Lawn Boy Returns do not know a lot about the Muslim faith I know a little and I appreciated the explanations It seemed like those were theriest parts of the book though What I Yolandas Genius do know about the Muslim faith was reaffirmed It is a loving peaceful family based religion They adhere to a high standard of strict moral conduct norinking immorality immodesty etc The sanctity of motherhood and children is tantamount and life and society should be built around the traditional family unit Listening to Shelina escribe her standards you could almost see her living in SLC and being mistaken for a Mormon although the headscarf would be a ead giveaway In fact there were so many similarities I was only left to one conclusion whether you are an American Mormon or a British Muslim we are all children of the same loving God whether you call him Allah or Heavenly Father he has the same standards and laws and loves us all the same There were times when the similarities were uite striking When Shelina went on her Hajj her pilgramage to their sacred Kabaa in Mecca which they call the house of their God they all The Light Beyond the Forest dress in white to remo. Lam and become aevoted MuslimShelina is keeping a very surprising secret under her headscarf she wants to fall in love and find her faith Torn between the Buxom Aunties romantic comedies and mosue Imam.
Shelina Zahra Janmohamed is the author of Love in a Headscarf a humorous and irreverent memoir about growing up as a Muslim woman She writes regularly for EMEL magazine a leading glossy Muslim lifestyle magazine She also writes for the Times Online the National based in the UAE and has written for the Guardian and Comment is Free She has her own award winning blog which is now four years